checkbox from database onchange submit form

JCR1951

In PHP i'm using :

      $columns = array(
    array( 'db' => 'id', 'dt' => 'id' ),    
    array( 'db' => 'name', 'dt' => 'name' ),
    array( 'db' => 'address',  'dt' => 'address' ),
    array( 'db' => 'lat',   'dt' => 'lat' ),
    array( 'db' => 'lng',     'dt' => 'lng' ),
    array( 'db' => 'type',     'dt' => 'type' ),
    array( 'db' => 'fotoA',     'dt' => 'fotoA' ),
    array( 'db' => 'fotoB',     'dt' => 'fotoB' ),
    array( 'db' => 'fotoC',     'dt' => 'fotoC' ),
    array( 'db' => 'faceb',     'dt' => 'faceb' ),
    array( 'db' => 'youtu',     'dt' => 'youtu' ),
    array( 'db' => 'webs',     'dt' => 'webs' )
);
.
.
.
       require( 'ssp.class.php' );
 
echo json_encode(
    SSP::simple( $_GET, $sql_details, $table, $primaryKey, $columns )
);

At the clientside:

     $(document).ready(function() {
    $('#example').DataTable( {
        "language": {"url": "//cdn.datatables.net/plug-ins/9dcbecd42ad/i18n/Dutch.json" },
        "processing": true,
        "serverSide": true,
        "ajax": "scripts/server_processing.php",
            "scrollY": 200,
            "scrollCollapse": true,
            "paging":         true,
            "columns": [

{ "render": function (data, type, full, meta){
    return '<input type="checkbox" name= id[] value="' 
        + $('<div/>').text(data).html() + '">';
                            }
                                },  
                                            
                        { "data": "name" },
.
.
.

The render function doesn't work, because the sended data is not correct (?)
What I want:
Members can select max.25 other members as friend.
With every change of a checkbox I want to submit a form to load the ID (name of the checkbox) to a table 'friends' in the database.
The ID of the member who's looking for friends is known.
In a second datatable are all the friends selected.
I tried several options.
But I can't get the code correct for the checkbox.
So I can't test the other functions.

Someone who can help?

JCR1951

I'm on my way....

      $('#exampleA').on('change', 'tbody td input[type="checkbox"]', function(){
      var checka = tableA.row( $(this).closest('tr')).data();
      var ida = checka.id;
           // If checkbox is not checked
      if(!this.checked){
     alert("false "+ ida);
           }
         else
       {
       alert("true "+ ida);
        }      
       });

http://pctraverse.nl/DataTables-1.10.11/examples/server_side/simpleZ.html