Server side edit row on another page

klymov.inekon

Hello.
How can I edit row if table is server side but item on another page?

I have import via excel and I need to check if row existed and rewrite if user confirm rewriting. But we found a problem that if we use server side and item not on current page - backend has empty request (only action and no data).

Unfortunately I can't give access or link to webpage

How I made this check
1) Get all data via ajax request same from editor.

var params = table.ajax.params();
var newParams = $.extend(true, {}, params, {
    draw: 1,
    length: -1,
    search: { value: "" },
    searchBuilder: null,
    start: 0
});
$.ajax ... 

2) If primary keys already exist - add item to array ToUpdate and DT_RowId to array toUpdateRowIds, if not - ToCreate.
3) create new instance of editor with 2 buttons - Confirm update or Skip

 var options = {
     title: ImportUpdateTitle,
     buttons: [
         {
             text: ImportUpdateButtonConfirm,
             action: function (e, json, data, action) {
                 for (var i = 0; i < fields.length; i++) { 
                     var field = editor.field(fields[i]);   // From start I don't know columns, fields are dynamic
                     var fieldName = field.name();
                     for (var j = 0; j < toUpdate.length; j++) {
                         var value = toUpdate[j][fieldName] ? toUpdate[j][fieldName] : null
                         field.multiSet(toUpdateRowIds[j], value);
                     }
                 }
                 editor.one("postSubmit", function (e, json, data, action, xhr) {    
                     if (toCreate.length > 0) {
                         createRecords(editorCreate);
                     }
                     else {
                         editor.close()
                     }
                 })
                 editor.submit(null, null, null, false);
             }
         },
         {
             text: resxTranslations.ImportUpdateButtonNotConfirm,
             action: function (e, json, data, action) {
                 if (toCreate.length > 0) {
                     createRecords(editorCreate);
                 }
                 else {
                     editor.close()
                 }
             }
         }
     ],
     message: message
 } as IFormOptions;

editor.edit(toUpdateRowIds, options = options);

I found only one same problem from forum, but it was 2010 https://datatables.net//forums/discussion/2272 .
Copilot propose me add to this updated rows on table, but it not help ( I have an error Could not find an element with data-editor-id or id)

if (!table.row('#' + rowId).length) {
    table.row.add(rowData).draw(false);
}

Second try was - set pageLength -1 and redraw, but I need to set drawCallback once. Maybe will be simple solution.
Thanks

klymov.inekon

P.S. Second solution is working, but it work fine and quick when I have 25 rows. But in some tables I have 30 000 rows, and then it will take time to redraw full table